Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Living with Herpes,Share your Positive Experience.

If you have been recently diagnosed with genital herpes, you may be upset and confused and think your sex  life is over.  However, once you settle down and learn the facts, you will realize  that having genital herpes is not the end of the world, and it’s not the end of  your sex life or your social life.  You are not alone!
In the USA, approximately 60% to 80% of people carry the HSV1 virus, and 20%-25% of people over 12 carry the HSV2 virus. Percentages are higher in major metro areas.  Both HSV1 and HSV2 can cause genital herpes.  Most people with herpes have infrequent, mild, or no noticeable symptoms, and are totally unaware that they even have it.  Other people may display symptoms occasionally or regularly. HSV1 is most often associated with cold-sores around the mouth, but can also be transmitted to the genitals via oral sex and is the cause of many new cases of genital herpes.  HSV2 is most often associated with the genital region and very rarely occurs near the mouth.  Sometimes people have herpes outbreaks on their backs, buttocks or thighs, and not around the genitals.  Surprisingly, most doctors do NOT include a test for herpes even when they are testing their patients for other common STD’s.  Therefore, 90% of people who carry the virus for herpes – don’t even know it!   Unless you specifically request a herpes blood test, you may not know if you have herpes HSV1 or HSV2 or both.  Ask your doctor for the herpes blood test!
Many cities in the US and around the world have herpes social and  support groups that you can join to meet others who are in the same  situation.  Some of these groups are very active and are a great place to make friends and find people to date.   There are also several online dating services for people with herpes and other STDs. If you  are dating people who do not have herpes, you should learn how to tell someone  that you have herpes, and how to reduce your risk  of transmitting herpes to your partner(s).   The more you know about genital  herpes, the more confident you will be about the choices you make.  For more  information about herpes transmission, diagnosis and  treatment, see our Herpes Links page.
Good luck and Share your Positive Experience below!           

11 comments:

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  2. My Friend Has Herpes - She Dated Again and Found Real Love
    A girlfriend of mine was single for a very long time. She seemed to run away from any man who was interested in her. Originally I thought "That's Weird!", now I look back on those days with a little bit of sadness.
    We were watching a DVD at my house one Saturday evening, having a few glasses of wine when she told me about her heartbreaking secret. She's contracted herpes from an old lover. I still weep when I think of her telling me and the defensive distrust in her eyes. Despite 15 years friendship it was as if she expected me to turn my back on her, rather than give her a hug and a shoulder to cry on.
    We talked about some of her ex boyfriends. There was one in particular who sticks in my mind. They were dating for months, it all looked wonderful from the outside. Everything was going so well yet when she told him, he just split. He didn't even break up with her, he just never answered her calls or saw her again.
    It was one of the most heart breaking stories I'd ever heard.
    The saddest thing about this story was that she had to shoulder the burden of this extreme rejection herself. Still reasonably new to dealing with the disease, she had not told anyone she was infected. As such, when this jerk treated her so poorly rather than supporting her, she had no-one to confide in at all. It made me weep to hear it.
    I am so glad we talked openly that night. I think I really helped my friend. As we chatted and I shared her burden, I could almost see the weight lift from her shoulders. It also opened a gate for her I think as we talked about these things many times in the future. It was as if having broken the ice on the topic, she allowed herself to share her burden moving forward.
    One thing she really found useful was a dating site specifically designed to cater for people with STDs.
    There were many reasons why she found this useful.
    One of the things about this dating site she really enjoyed, was the understanding everyone had for what she was going through. The people she met and dated from this site all shared her experiences so they knew what she was going through. Through this understanding they provided real support.
    The other thing which is pretty unique about STD dating sites is the way the websites themselves support the community they foster. Sure, they have forums and chat like every other dating site, but they also have some really useful tools. Like a daily fact sheet or news column about STDs to help the members understand what's going on. The one she joined even had live counsellors at the site, to help her through the issues specifically relating to her carrying the disease.
    It was really great seeing the positive effect this site had on my friend. She doesn't visit it anymore though, she doesn't need to with her husband and two beautiful children doting on her.

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  3. I want to share my testimonies on how Dr Emuan cured me from Genetic Herpes with his herbal medicine, he was very honest ,he told me i will be cured within 14days that was what happened ,he sent me the herbal medicine ,which i did not spend much ,i have been cheated by some fake herbalist ,till God directed me to dr Emuan,now am free from the deadly disease,please don't ignore this post is for real ,he cures other deadly disease ..contact him via his email Dremuansolution@gmail.com if you need help . To hell with the government and their insane policy, he have a medication that is hundred percent assured to cure genital herpes and some other deadly diseases ,you don't need to spend so much money anymore

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  4. I was diagnosed of Herpes in 2014 and I have tried all possible means to get the cure but all to no avail, until i saw a post in a health forum about a Herbal Doctor(Dr Aloha) who prepares herbal medicine to cure all kind of diseases including Herpes,at first i doubted if it was real but decided to give it a try,when i contacted Dr Aloha through his Email: Alohaherbalhome@gmail.com he guided me and prepared a herbal medicine and sent it to me via courier Delivery service,when i received the package (herbal medicine) He gave me instructions on how to consume it,i started using it as instructed and i stooped getting outbreaks and the sores started vanishing,could you believe i was cured of this deadly virus within 10-14 days of using this REMEDY,couldn't believe the healing at first until i went for a check-up,indeed i was tested negative to HERPES.Contact this great herbal Doctor today via Email: Alohaherbalhome@gmail.com and get cured permanently. or Call/Text: +1(312) 361-5917

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  5. My boyfriend and I met three years ago on herpes dating site so we discovered we are +ve from the beginning of our relationship, that we both had genital herpes. My first outbreak was the ABSOLUTE worst experience, I was so sick. We suffered for one year plus, had constant outbreaks and then finally we decided to both respectively take Dr Utu African Traditional Herbs as advised by friends. His herb is Not much bitter or sour taste.
    Dosage two times daily every day for four weeks, and honest to goodness it was a miraculous herbs. We were on it for not more than two weeks when we noticed total change. 'couldn't wait for four weeks. It was third week and five days we used the herbs. Then we went for test and was already hsv2 negative, the both of us. Neither of us have had any lesion, outbreak or symptoms till date.
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  6. i was cured of herpes simplex virus 1 & 2 by a great herbal doctor called Dr DR EHI with the use of different combination of Africa herbs. it is still like a dream to me. There is no word suitable enough to qualify your significant in my life dear doctor.You can contact him via Ehicareherbalhome@gmail.com or whatsapp him on +2348117827382. My little way to appreciate you doctor is to advertise your great work and that is what i am doing now  

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  7. Am so happy to share this testimony thank you Dr Oduku i never believed i will be herpes negative again despite all i passed through Dr Oduku you are truly sent by God and you can also place your order for Dr Oduku roots and herbs medicine email odukuherbalremediess@gmail.com or what-app number +2347067706774.

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  8. @M.Ma
    I agree!
    It worked for me years ago when I was depressed with herpes. After trying numerous other methods, It was actually an old Ibo lady who brought to my notice the healing effect of natural medicine (roots and herbs). She too has been permanently cured from HERPES long time ago through one Dr Utu at "drutuherbalcure@gmail.com".
    Dr Utu specialises in African roots and herbs for medicine. Apparently roots and herbs have well been known as effective key treatment for herpes. Well she introduced me to Dr Utu who till date remain my savior, and he truly cleared my doubt. After taking his meds on the fourth week, I contacted him again who asked me to go for test and I was negative. From then till now I do my normal business no outbreak. I may not be a herbal fan but it definitely worked for me!

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  10. My joy knows no bounds, I never thought that one day I will live on earth cured of this virus. I have been suffering from this deadly virus "HERPES SIMPLEX VIRUS" since 5 years ago. I have spent a lot of money on drugs and going from one hospital to another, hospital has been my most visited place where constant check up have been my hobby not until one day, i decided to share my situation to a very close friend of mine and she was very upset with me for not telling her ever since that she is aware of one doctor called Dr. Sani who helps people in curing their HERPES. quickly i contacted his email: perfectherbalcure@gmail.com that was given to me by Carolyn, just to give him a test, i spoke to him, he asked me to do some certain things which i did, he told me that he was going to prepare and send some herbal cure to me, which he did and thereafter i received it and after using the herbal cure within 2weeks and few days i was totally cured, i had to go back to the same hospital that I have been going before to confirm my cure and behold I was confirmed negative by my doctor, so today I am here to spread the good-news of my life on how Dr. Sani saved me from the nightmare and outbreaks of HERPES VIRUS. You can contact him via email: perfectherbalcure@gmail.com or Whats-app: +2348118184266. If you are still suffering from this deadly virus...I believe you're going to be happy and feel alive again just as I am right now.
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