Sunday, July 31, 2011

I love my boyfriend...he has genital herpes

So i recently started dating my best friend of 10 years. we are really close. so close that i am the first person he told about his herpes diagnosis 4 year ago.

About a month ago we kissed one night,after drinking of course, and it was like , damn, why didn't we do this sooner? Seriously best kiss ever. Turned into the best sex ever! We are being careful, very.

But I loved him before we were dating. He is my best friend. He feels the same way. If ever there was a relationship that you know would lead somewhere, this is it. So we are both pretty certain that this is going to some kind of long term place eventually. I am curious to hear from people in a long term committed relationship in which only one of you have herpes. It's hard because sometimes i just don't want that condom between us. For now it has to be. But eventually if we end up serious, married wanting kids , condoms have to come off.

He is so worried about giving it to me.He feels so bad about himself sometimes. Granted, I'd rather not get it. but honestly it is so common anyway. I'm not going to leave someone i love as much as him when there is a 1 in 5 chance that the next guy has it anyway. plus there is way more scary stuff out there health wise and asshole guy wise. Right?

What can i take preemptively to reduce risk of contraction or suppress symptoms?
can anyone offer any advice if we stop condoms one day? Is there anything that can be used to reduce risk of spreading other then condoms? If he does not get out breaks often does that mean i may not as well since its the same strain?

i know how down many of you get because you have herpes. My man does too. Take it from someone who does not have it, please don't think it defines you in any way. it's just a thing. I know it can suck but it has no reflection on you as a person or your deserving love. My man is the sexiest thing I've ever seen and i would not trade him for anything!

Friday, July 29, 2011

Sexually transmitted diseases

Sexually Transmitted Diseases are popularly called venereal diseases. They are contagious diseases, easily transmitted by sexual contact from an infected person to a sexual partner who is otherwise healthy.

The germs causing these diseases vary a great deal, but all depend on the warmth and moisture of the sexual organs for survival. They readily penetrate the delicate skin and moist membranes that come in contact during sexual intercourse. Once the germs have invaded the tissues of the sex organs, they propagate and spread to other tissues, even throughout the body in some cases.

The sexually transmitted diseases cause various kinds of suffering with tragic results as damage to an unborn child, infertility and even premature death. Once established in a person’s body, the disease tends to persist, if untreated, for the duration of life. Syphilis and Gonorrhoea are the best-known venereal diseases, but the range also includes genital herpes, candidiasis and warts, as well as trichomoniasis, chancroid, staphylococcal infections and Lymphogranuloma venereum.

In spite of our present knowledge of these diseases and in spite of the availability of effective treatment, the number of cases of sexually transmitted illness has increased so alarmingly that they are virtually out of control.

The symptoms of sexually transmitted diseases vary, depending on the causative agent. There may be abnormal discharge from the sexual organ, with foul odour and itching sensations, as in Gonorrhoea, Trichomoniasis and Candidiasis. There may be ulcers and pinching sensations as in Genital Herpes Simplex, Staphylococcus, Syphilis, Chancroid and Granuloma inguinale.

It should be well understood that when a sexually transmitted disease is diagnosed in a man or woman, the disease has probably already passed on to the sexual partner, it is therefore important that both should treated to prevent re-infection.

In fact, prolonged cases of venereal infections have been shown to predispose one to more dangerous infections such as HIV/AIDS.

Some of the natural remedies being advanced for the treatment and control of sexually transmitted diseases include the extracts of local herbs such as Allium cepa, Senna alata and Plumbago zeylanica.

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Monday, July 18, 2011

Cold sore - What you should know

Definition

A cold sore is a fluid-filled blister that usually appears at the edge of the lips. Cold sores are caused by a herpes simplex virus infection.

Description

A cold sore is a fluid-filled, painful blister that is usually on or around the lips. Other names for cold sores are fever blisters, oral herpes, labial herpes, herpes labialis, and herpes febrilis. Cold sores most often occur on the lips, distinguishing them from the common canker sore that is usually located inside the mouth. Cold sores do not usually occur inside the mouth except during the initial episode. Canker sores usually form either on the tongue or inside the cheeks.

Cold sores are caused by a herpes virus. There are eight different kinds of human herpes viruses. Only two of these, herpes simplex, types 1 and 2, can cause cold sores. It is commonly believed that herpes simplex virus type 1 infects above the waist and herpes simplex virus type 2 infects below the waist. This is not completely true. Both herpes virus type 1 and type 2 can cause herpes lesions on the lips or genitals but recurrent cold sores are almost always type 1.

Oral herpes is very common. More than 60% of Americans have had a cold sore and almost 25% of those infected experience recurrent outbreaks. Most of these persons became infected before age 10. Anyone can become infected by herpes virus and once infected, the virus remains latent for life. Herpes viruses are spread from person to person by direct skin-to-skin contact. The highest risk for spreading the virus is the time period beginning with the appearance of blisters and ending with scab formation. However, infected persons need not have visible blisters to spread the infection to others since the virus may be present in the saliva without obvious oral lesions.

Viruses are different from bacteria. While bacteria are independent and can reproduce on their own, viruses enter human cells and force them to make more virus. The infected human cell is usually killed and releases thousands of new viruses. The cell death and resulting tissue damage causes the actual cold sores. In addition, herpes virus can infect a cell and instead of making the cell


produce new viruses, it hides inside the cell and waits. Herpes virus hides in the nervous system. This is called "latency." A latent virus can wait inside the nervous system for days, months, or even years. At some future time, the virus "awakens" and causes the cell to produce thousands of new viruses which causes an active infection.

This process of latency and active infection is best understood by considering the cold sore cycle. An active infection is obvious because cold sores are present. The first infection is called the "primary" infection. This active infection is then controlled by the body's immune system and the sores heal. In between active infections the virus is latent. At some point in the future, latent viruses become activated and once again cause sores. These are called "recurrent" infections. Although it is unknown what triggers a latent virus to activate, several conditions seem to bring on infections. These include stress, illness, fatigue, exposure to sunlight, menstruation, fever, and diet.

Causes & symptoms

While anyone can be infected by herpes virus, not everyone will show symptoms. The first symptoms of herpes occur within two to 20 days after contact with an infected person. Symptoms of the primary infection are usually more severe than those of recurrent infections. The primary infection can cause symptoms like other viral infections including fatigue, headache, fever, and swollen lymph nodes in the neck.

Typically, 50–80% of persons with oral herpes experience a prodrome (symptoms of oncoming disease) of pain, burning, itching, or tingling at the site where blisters will form. This prodrome stage may last anywhere from a few hours, to one or two days. The herpes infection prodrome occurs in both the primary infection and recurrent infections.

In 95% of patients with cold sores, the blisters occur at the outer edge of the lips which is called the "vermilion border." Less often, blisters form on the nose, chin, or cheek. Following the prodrome, the disease process is rapid. First, small red bumps appear which quickly form fluid-filled blisters. The painful blisters may either burst and form a scab or dry up and form a scab. Within two days of the first red bumps, all the blisters have formed scabs. The skin heals completely and without scarring within six to 10 days.

Some children have a very serious primary (first episode) herpes infection called gingivostomatitis. This causes fever, swollen lymph glands, and numerous blisters inside the mouth and on the lips and tongue, which may form large, open sores. These painful sores may last up to three weeks and can make eating and drinking difficult. Because of this, young children with gingivostomatitis are at risk for dehydration (excessive loss of water from the body).

Most people experience fewer than two recurrent outbreaks of cold sores each year. Some people never experience outbreaks while others have more frequent occurrences. In most people, the blisters form in the same area each time and are triggered by the same factors (such as stress, sun exposure, etc.).

Diagnosis

Because oral herpes is so common, it is diagnosed primarily by symptoms. It can be diagnosed and treated by the family doctor, dermatologists (doctors who specialize in skin diseases) and infectious disease specialists. Laboratory tests may be performed to look for the virus. Because healing sores do not shed much virus, a sample from an open sore is taken for viral culture. A sterile cotton swab is wiped over open sores and the sample used to infect human cells in culture. Cells which are killed by herpes virus have a certain appearance under microscopic examination. The results of this test are available within two to 10 days.

Oral herpes may resemble a bacterial infection called impetigo. This skin infection is most commonly seen in children and causes herpes-like blisters around the mouth and nose. Also, because oral herpes can occur inside the mouth, the blisters could be mistaken for common canker sores. Therefore, doctors need to determine whether the blisters are oral herpes, canker sores, or impetigo. The diagnosis and treatment of herpes infections should be covered by most insurance providers.

Treatment

There is no cure for cold sores but many alternative treatments can reduce outbreaks and shorten healing time. During an outbreak of cold sores, salty foods, citrus foods (oranges etc.), and other foods that irritate the sores should be avoided. Wash the sores once or twice a day with a warm, saline solution and pat gently to dry. Application of ice or a cold wet teabag for 10 minutes four or five times a day can relieve the itching and burning.

Prevention

The only way to prevent oral herpes is to avoid contact with infected persons. This is not an easy solution because many people are not aware that they are infected and can easily infect others. As of 2001 there were no known herpes vaccines available, although vaccines are being tested.

Several practices can reduce the occurrence of cold sores and the spread of virus to other body locations or people. These practices are:

-Avoidance of sun exposure to the face. Before getting prolonged exposure to the sun, apply sunscreen to the face and especially to the lips. Wearing a hat with a large brim is also helpful.
-Avoid touching cold sores. Squeezing, picking, or pinching blisters can allow the virus to spread to other parts of the lips or face and infect those sites.
-Wash hands frequently. Persons with oral herpes should wash their hands carefully before touching others. An infected person can spread the virus to others even when he or she has no obvious blisters.
-Avoid contact with others during active infection. Infected persons should avoid kissing or sexual contact with others until after the cold sores have healed.
-Wear gloves when applying ointment to a child's sore.
-Be especially careful with infants. Never kiss the eyes or lips of a baby who is under six months old.
-Be watchful of infected children. Do not allow infected children to share toys that may be put into the mouth. -Toys that have been mouthed should be disinfected before other children play with them.
-Maintain good general health. A healthy diet, plenty of sleep, and exercise help to minimize the chance of getting a cold or the flu, which are known to bring on cold sores. Also, good general health keeps the immune system strong which helps to keep the virus in check and prevent outbreaks.
-Participate in a stress reduction program. Yoga, massage, aromatherapy, meditation, hypnosis, or biofeedback can relieve stress which may reduce outbreaks.

Genital Herpes - What Increases Your Risk

Factors that increase your risk of getting genital herpes include:

-Having multiple sex partners.
-Having a high-risk partner or partners (partner has multiple sex partners or HSV-infected sex partners).
-Having unprotected sexual contact (not using condoms).
-Starting sexual activity before age 18.
-Having an impaired immune system.
-Being a woman. Women are more likely than men to become infected when exposed to HSV and tend to have more severe and longer-lasting symptoms. Women also are at a greater risk of having complications from a genital herpes infection.
Infection with HSV, especially if you have open sores, also increases your risk for becoming infected with the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) if you are exposed to HIV.

Things that may raise your risk for recurrent genital herpes outbreaks include:

-Emotional stress.
-Fatigue.
-Other infections, such as a cold or the flu.
-Physical injury, such as irritation, of the genital area.
-Any condition that impairs your immune system.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Online Dating With Herpes

Dating with herpes is a difficult topic for most people who have it to talk about. When you first come down with herpes, at first you probably feel like you'll never be able to date again. The harsh news of a confirmed diagnosis can be very difficult for many people to deal with, and reactions vary. Some people get angry at the person who gave them the disease. Others spend weeks trying to figure out where they got it. Many people get depressed, and go into a funk, thinking that their love life is ruined forever. But dating with herpes is not only possible, millions of people are doing it.
The first thing to keep in mind is that one out of four people in the United States have genital herpes. So you're far from being alone. Most of them are able to date successfully, even though at first they were just as devastated as you were by the news of their herpes infection.
The second thing to keep in mind is that you'll need to be honest and upfront with every person you date about the fact that you're carrying the virus. This doesn't mean you have to tell every person who's interested in you, or every one you go out with about the disease on your first date or conversation with them. That's not necessary. But it does mean that if things progress further, that you have a moral obligation to let them know before you get intimate with them.
Third, with one in four adults in America having herpes, there is a big market for dating solutions for people with the virus. One of the best ones to come along was the creation of dating and social sites and organizations only for people who already have herpes. This may be the ideal solution for you. It has been for tens of thousands of people, who have used these websites and organizations to find the romance and love they once thought they would never experience again.
Dating with herpes doesn't have to mean living a lonely, loveless site. It just means doing things a little bit differently from now on.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Herpes Question & AnswerⅡ

Q:What is the chance of passing herpes to a partner?

A:The chance of passing genital herpes to a partner varies depending how often a person gets herpes outbreaks, what strain of herpes a person has, if medication is taken, if protective sex take place and other variables. The herpes virus could go undetected seem the body often weakens the virus. Seem the herpes virus often isn’t detected there is no real way to know the chance of passing herpes to a partner.

The chance of spreading herpes to a partner orally by oral sex is low. HSV-1 is genital herpes 5-10% of all herpes cases. If a partner has genital HSV-1 (less common type of genital herpes) the chance of the virus spreading orally is high seem HSV-1 is usually oral herpes. If oral sex is performed on a partner with genital HSV-2 (more common type of genital herpes) the virus won’t be likely to spread orally.

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Q: My wife started to get herpes outbreaks. Does that mean she cheated on me?

A:The human body weakens the herpes virus. If the herpes virus is weak the virus could go undetected for any period of time. It is possible your wife carried the herpes virus for years. Most people who carry the herpes antibodies show very mild symptoms of the virus or no symptoms at all.

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Q: How are “Crabs” treated and diagnosed?

A:Crabs are diagnosed by seeing eggs on the pubic hair. A small percent of the time crabs could be found on the eyebrows, beards or mustache, armpits and other certain body parts. It some case pubic lice may be difficult to detect. Crabs will cause itching around the genital area.

Pubic lice is treated with a lotion that contains 1% permethrin. Lindane shampoo kills head lice. There are different types of lotions that a doctor could prescribe to treat crabs or lice. Once crabs are cured the virus won’t spread to a partner.

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Q: How can a person catch crabs?

A:Crabs are generally spread by sexual intercourse. In less common cases crabs is spread by sharing personal items or bed linens. The chance of crabs spreading by toilet use is almost non existent. Crabs wouldn’t be likely to survive on the surface of a toilet.

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Q: After being married for 36 years I got genital warts. Does that mean by husband cheated on me?

A: HPV is a virus of the skin and the virus is spread by sexual contact. HPV could hide in the skin for years. A person with HPV may not get a genital wart outbreak for days or years. Keep in mind an abnormal pap smear doesn't always mean a person has HPV. HPV is the leading cause of cervical cancer. If a person hasn't had a genital wart outbreak for two or more years there is a 90% chance the human body completely cleared the virus.

HPV could spread even if a partner doesn't have an active genital wart outbreak. Being diagnosed with HPV doesn't always mean a partner cheated. Genital wart outbreaks often appear within the first few weeks to three months after a person caught the virus. It isn't common, but possible one of you carried the virus for years and never showed symptoms of the virus.

I understand it can be a hurtful experience when someone feels a loved one may have cheated.

You may find the information from the following article helpful.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/stdfact-hpv.htm

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Q:I have had HSV 2 for 2 years now. I have gone to a dermatologist and ruled out HPV or cancer. They come back and I get them frozen off. Do I have HPV or herpes.


A: Herpes could cause a bump, lump or a tear in the skin. Some doctor will take a swab sample of active herpes sore and test it. The herpes swab test in only done in certain situations and as needed. If you feel you may have HPV I would suggest getting a second opinion. There are cases where HPV is mistaken for herpes vice versa. The only real way to tell if you have HPV or herpes is to have a doctor see the virus while it is active.

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Q: I read a man was cured completely from HIV. Is this really true?
A:According to CBS news, other new companies and articles Timothy Ray Brown tested positive for HIV in 1995 and now is the worlds first known man to completely clear HIV from his body. CBSnews.com stated “Scientist gave him bone marrow, stem cell transplant that had astounding results”. Brown reported that he stopped taking HIV medication the day the transplant took place. A highly respected HIV research by the name of Dr. Jay Levy gave his professional medical opinion about this manner. Refer to the following website to read more about Dr. Jay Levy medical opinion and this topic.

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2011/06/05/eveningnews/main20069146.shtml

http://nymag.com/health/features/aids-cure-2011-6/

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Q: What is the history of genital warts?

A:Genital warts were around since ancient times. In fact the Greeks and Romans wrote about genital warts. During this time no one knew HPV caused genital warts. Researchers and articles often give credit to Harald Zur Hausen for discovering HPV can cause cervical cancer. Harald shares the Nobile Prize for Medicine with Sinoussi and Montagnier. Harald was given 50% credit for this discovery. One quarter (25% credit) of the credit was given to Rancoise Barre- Sinoussi . One quarter credit was given to Luc Montagnier. Refer to the web sites to read more about this topic.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harald_zur_Hausen

http://homoeconomicusnet.wordpress.com/2008/10/06/nobel-prize-for-hiv-discovery-and-hpv-link/

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Q:What is the history of HIV?

A:Some researchers debate when HIV was first discovered. HIV was discovered around 1981. When HIV was first discovered scientist believed that the virus affected gay men. According to the Center of Disease Control in December of 1981 many scientist were convinced that the virus affected other groups. In July of 1981 over 450 cases of HIV were reported. It may of 1983 doctor report they discovered a new virus. It wasn’t until several years later scientist and doctor had a well understanding of how HIV is spread.


Francoise Barre- Sinoussi and Luc Montagnier earned the Nobel Prize for medicine in 2008 for their 1983 discover of HIV. The prize included 1.2 million USA dollars. Barre-Sinoussi also was credited for discovering the human papilloma virus.

http://www.poz.com/articles/nobel_discover_hiv_1_15763.shtml

http://www.avert.org/aids-history-86.htm

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Q: What should I do if I think I have been exposed to hepatitis A?

A:You should contact your health provide or state health department as soon as possible. If you weren’t vaccinated for the virus a immune globulin or Hepatitis A vaccine could be given within two week of coming in contact with the virus. The sooner a person seeks medical attention the better. A health care professional will determine what is the best think to do based on a person’s health status and age.

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Q: What should I do if I think I have been exposed to hepatitis B?
A:You should call the local health department or your health care provider. If the hepatitis B vaccine is given within 24 hours the virus might be preventable. The hepatitis B vaccine is also known as “HBIG”. Don’t wait to seek medical attention.

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Q: Can someone with HIV become a US citizen?
A:According to worldlawdirect.com (an article written on June 30, 2011) you’re ineligible for a permanent visa if you have HIV. Before applying for a permanent visa you muss submit a medical exam by US Citizenship and Immigration Services. This examine includes HIV screening. You can still become a US citizen if you overcome this ineligibly and apply for a “discretionary waiver”. If someone is already a USA citizen he/she can’t be deported for HIV status. The following article has detailed information about this topic.

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Q: Is it a criminal offense hot disclosing HIV to a partner?

A:If a person knowingly has HIV and didn’t disclose that information to a partner criminal charges could be pressed if that person caught HIV. Thirty four state prosecuted HIV positive individuals for not disclosing HIV status to a sexual partner. The web site below list all those state along with some counties that prosecuted individuals for not disclosing their HIV status. In fact a person could be brought up on felony charges and go to jail for years for passing HIV to some and not disclosing their HIV status.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criminal_transmission_of_HIV

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Q: How do I know if I have HIV?
A:The symptoms of HIV could be mistaken for other illness. Some of the symptoms of HIV include rapid weight loss, dry cough, extreme tiredness, night sweat, diarrhea along with other possible symptoms. The only way a person can be certain he/she has HIV is to get tested. A person could have HIV for years and not show symptoms of the virus. If a person knows he/she has HIV the spread of HIV can reduce.

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/definitions.htm

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Q: How do I tell a potential partner I have herpes?
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A: There is no right way to tell a partner about herpes. You may find a different approach that works better for you. Here is a list of things to do in order and how to have the talk. Ideally you don’t want to tell a person too soon or wait too long to have “the talk”. You want to tell someone about your situation you trust.


- Do research about herpes. By doing research you will be prepared to answer a question the other person has. Many people don't really know how herpes is spread.

- Think of a set of words that sounds nice. Remember to make eye contact, speak in a normal tone of voice and remain calm. A positive attitude is more likely to lead to positive results.

- Find a quiet place where you and your parent are alone. Don't tell a partner about your situation during the heat of the moment.

- After you have the talk allow a partner to talk, ask a partner if she has any questions and allow her time to think of her choice if needed.

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Q: How do I tell if I have herpes or genital warts?

A:Herpes could be mistaken for genital warts vice versa. Herpes could cause a bump, lump or tear in the skin. If a doctor isn’t certain a person has herpes a swab sample could be taken from an active bump or lump and be tested for herpes. Only some doctor offer the herpes swab test. Genital warts generally form in cluster and grow in size if it isn’t treated.

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Q: Why are circumcised men less likely to catch HIV?

A:Circumcision reduces the amount of mucosal tissue exposed to vaginal secretions during heterosexual intercourse and thus may reduce the potential interactions between the virus and its target immune cells.

Circumcision results in a process called keratinization, whereby the top layer of the inner foreskin becomes thicker, which may provide additional protection for the underlying target immune cells.

Circumcision-associated physiological changes of the penis -- including lower moisture and oxygen availability around the head of the penis -- may reduce the number of pro-inflammatory anaerobic bacteria that could make the target immune cells more vulnerable to HIV infection.

The following information was taken from the following article.

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/01/100106003617.htm

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Q: Are health care workers likely to get HIV?

A: A very small never of health care workers are exposed to HIV while performing job duties. There are universal precautions that health workers should follow. Being around a person with HIV doesn’t increase a person’s chance of catching HIV. The main risk of HIV transmission is through injuries such as getting stuck with a needles or sharp object. Many researches believe the chance of catching HIV from a needle stick is less than one percent. If you want to read more about HIV transmission go to the following web site.

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/transmission.htm

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Q: What should I do if I think I have been exposed to HIV?

A:If you think you have been exposed to HIV go to an emergency room right away. With medical treatment HIV could be prevented about 8 out of 10 cases where person were “just” infected by HIV within the last 36 hours. If a person has been exposed to HIV and seeks medical care right away medication could prevent an HIV infection. A person may be asked to take an HIV test. The HIV test will tell a person if they already have HIV. The following web site provides information on what can be done if a person has just been exposed to HIV

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Q: What is best way to prevent STD’s?

A:The only way to prevent an STD is not to have sex. Limiting the amount of sex partners a person has sex with reduces the chance of catching an STD. Using a condom, avoiding sex if a partner has a herpes outbreak or a genital wart outbreak will reduce the chance of catching an STD. Taking medication as needed using a latex condom, having safe oral, anal and vaginal sex also helps reduce the chance of passing an STD to a partner.

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Q: Can STD’s spread by giving blood?

A: Any blood that is donated is tested for diseases and STD’s. There are certain guidelines that a person who donates blood must follow. If a person donates blood that has HIV or another disease the blood won’t be used. It is 99.999% safe receiving a blood transfusion. In third world counties receiving a blood transfusion may not be as safe as it is in the USA.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

11 Herpes Myths Debunked!

MYTH # 1: If you are in a long-term relationship and just found out that you have genital herpes, that means your partner was unfaithful.
A partner's genital herpes diagnosis does not necessarily mean they cheated. Many people who have genital herpes have mild symptoms or sometimes no symptoms at all. It's possible that one of you caught genital herpes a long time ago or your partner may have genital herpes and not know.

MYTH # 2: A genital herpes diagnosis means your sex life is over.
While condoms should ALWAYS be used during sex, you can still have a normal sex life after you contract genital herpes. However, sex should be avoided when you are experiencing an outbreak (when sores, symptoms are present). Many people refrain from sex during outbreaks because it
may be uncomfortable during these times. Even if sores aren't visible, you can still pass the virus to a partner; so condom use is ALWAYS recommended. Condoms have been shown to reduce transmission, but they are not a guarantee.

MYTH #3: You can get genital herpes from toilet seats.
Genital herpes is a very weak virus and it cannot survive when it is exposed to air.

MYTH # 4: If you just have oral sex, there's no chance of getting genital herpes.
Recently, there has been an upsurge in the cases of type 1 genital herpes -- caused by unprotected oral sex. A cold sore on your partner can be genital herpes on you. To reduce chances of contracting type-1 genital herpes, use condoms during oral sex.

MYTH # 5: Genital herpes can cause you to become sterile.
While some STDs do cause sterility, genital herpes does not cause a person to become sterile.

MYTH # 6: Only people who sleep around a lot get genital herpes.
Genital herpes is very common. So even if you've had a few sexual partners, you could contract it.

MYTH # 7: No one will accept me if they know I have genital herpes.
Many people who tell their partners and friends about their diagnosis report positive responses. By becoming knowledgeable about genital herpes and how it will (or will not) affect your life, and the life of your partner(s) is the best way to become comfortable with your diagnosis and with discussing it with others.

MYTH # 8: If you have a PAP smear, you don't need to be tested for genital herpes.
PAP smears are not a substitute for a genital herpes test because a PAP smear does not detect the virus. To find out of you have genital herpes, you have to get tested for it specifically.

MYTH # 9: If you have genital herpes, your child will too.
When an expectant mother knows she has genital herpes and tells her doctor, it is rare for the child to get the virus. Because it is a virus, the mother's body has developed antibodies to fight it and these antibodies protect the child. It is possible for a child to become infected, but if proper measures are taken chances are slim. You should consult a doctor if you are pregnant or want to become pregnant and you have genital herpes. Because some people have genital herpes with no symptoms, you may still want to be tested just to be sure.

MYTH #10: Cold sores are a lip infection like canker sores and have nothing to do with herpes.
Cold sores are caused by type 1 of the herpes virus which can also cause genital herpes if you engage in oral sex with someone who has a cold sore.

MYTH # 11: Having genital herpes increases the risk of getting other infections .
People who have herpes are not more susceptible to other infections.

What is Herpes? Tips on How to Suppress Your Outbreaks

Herpes simplex is part of a group of other virus called herpes Herpesviridae, which include the herpes virus 8 human (the cause of Kaposi's sarcoma), herpes zoster (the virus responsible for chickenpox and shingles) and cytomegalovirus (CMV).

Herpes simplex 1 is generally responsible cases of oral herpes, although in rare cases, herpes simplex 1 affects the genital area. HS2 is usually responsible for in case of genital herpes, although herpes simplex 2 may, in rarefied cases, cause infection by oral herpes.

The herpes virus is especially, probably overstepped only by the commonness virus getting a typical cold. It's approximated that 80 to 90 percent of all grownups are infected with herpes simplex 1. Herpes simplex 2 is much lower common, but even quite basic with an infection range of about 20 percent of all grownups.

Not all cases of herpes are symptomatic. In herpes simplex 2 cases, up to 90 percent of those infected are unaware of their position, or for the symptoms are not present or are not sufficiently unique to be recognized. While herpes infection not shows symptoms, the symptoms are commonly an outbreak of blisters or lesions.

Herpes is a transmissible, particularly on an outbreak of symptoms. Once upon a time herpes considers that transmission could only happen if an outbreak symptoms come, but now the evidence appearances that the herpes virus may be on the surface of the skin and can therefore be transmitted, still in the absence of visible signs of an epidemic are present. The phenomenon of the herpes virus on the skin surface in the absence of a seeable outbreak is called asymptomatic shedding.

Once herpes is transmitted the way to infection of the skin to skin contact like Kissing, family relationship*, and extra forms of intimate physical touch are the standard processes of transmission of herpes. Secondary objectives, like a toilet seat or some other public resource, are not the means of transmitting herpes infection. Herpes is transmitted once people have the intimate physical contact, generally while an outbreak is underway.

Herpes infections can definitely be a nuisance and can be physically uncomfortable also, but herpes isn't believed a dangerous threat to health. A person's general health isn't compromised by herpes infection. The only exclusions to this rule are herpes infections in infants - commonly infants are infected with herpes, genital herpes from an infected mother - and herpes infections in people with severely compromised immune systems.

Here are a few tips to help you feel comfortable living with herpes, a prospect that you'll find isn't as daunting as it sounds.

1. You're probably suffering from feelings of guilt and anger projected to yourself. Forgiving you'll be essential to your quality of life and the 1st step to do what pardon is the person who gave you the virus. You'll feel much more at rest once you learn to engage in the ability of forgiveness.

2. More people with herpes bear a stigma they bring to them, making them feel ashamed and ostracized. Forgiving you'll help alleviate these feels so that your self isn't compromised. Later all, you're the same person you were before you contracted the virus. More than half of American grownups have a few form of the herpes virus and almost of them bring shame on themselves.

3. Tell home members, sexual partners and closely friends that you've herpes virus. You'll feeling very much better when you've the backup of those you love who can help share the load of knowledge. Let others experience you're at peace with the fact that you've herpes. Being in peace will help you feeling better about the continuation of support from members of the community.

4. be very familiar with what will trigger your virus so that you are able to get in the habit of controlling your diet and your habits. Herpes remain dormant for most of the time, but it will re-activate itself when it's triggered by strain, poor diet choices, overexposure to the sun, the yeast Candida, excessive consumption of drugs or "alcohol, deficiency of sleep, or unprotected sex with an infected better half.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

How is the herpes virus transmitted?

Herpes is caused by the virus called herpes simplex. The virus is of two categories – HSV-1 and HSV-2. These viruses can enter the body through mucous membranes and tiny skin cuts. The mucous membranes refer to the anus, genitals, and mouth; so that would mean that you can get the virus through sexual contact and by simply kissing an infected person. Once the skin lesions begin to shed, the higher the chance of virus transmission.

If you’re infected with genital herpes, you can infect your partner through sexual intercourse. If the herpes outbreak is still active, your partner is more susceptible to the virus. Transmission can also take place in oral sex. If you have cold sores and you’re involved with oral sex, the virus can also be passed on to your partner. There are also times when asymptomatic shedding occurs and so the herpes is not visible. If that individual engages in any sexual activity, the virus will still be transmitted.

Prodome phase is when you already feel itching, burning or tingling sensations, and pain prior to the herpes outbreak. In this phase, possible virus transmission is quite high. The individual should be responsible enough to abstain from any sexual act at this phase.

As mentioned earlier, herpes can also be transmitted in other ways like skin cuts, infected individuals should also restrain from touching the affected area to avoid infecting other parts of the body. If you touch the affected area, refrain from rubbing or scratching other parts of the body; instead, wash your hands thoroughly. Try to maintain the cleanliness of the affected area. You can use water and soap when washing and you have to keep the area dry. You can pat it dry or you can use a hair dryer if you have one at home.

Gather as much information about herpes and its symptoms. The internet can help you in your search. You can use any of the search engines and type ‘herpes’. You will surely generate lots of results. You can save the info if you like for future reference. That way, you can check if you have the herpes symptoms.

The information you gather about herpes should not be used to replace medical advice. If you’re unsure, you can always visit your doctor and consult your current condition. Any one can be infected with herpes simplex so you should be prepared to combat it.

Once you get the infection, you can’t cure it. Prevention is the best answer when it comes to herpes. Having too many sexual partners is discouraged because you might be infected with the virus. Try to have only one sexual partner and you have to ensure that you’re partner is not infected with the virus.

Sunday, July 10, 2011

Genital Herpes' Silent Spread

Even if they don't show any sign of infection, people carrying the genital herpes virus can infect a sex partner 10% of the time.
The finding comes from a large study that collected daily genital swabs from nearly 500 people infected with herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2), the genital herpes virus. Many (18%) thought they were uninfected, but found out they were herpes carriers when they underwent blood tests.
It's not too hard to find people who carry the virus, as 16% of Americans have HSV-2 infections. The vast majority -- between 75% and 90% -- don't know they are infected because they don't get, or don't notice, herpes sores on their genitals.
These asymptomatic herpes carriers shed infectious virus 10% of the 30 or more days they were in the study, report University of Washington researcher Anna Wald, MD, MPH, and colleagues. And nearly all the time, these people had no obvious sign of herpes infection while they were actively shedding virus.
"The primary concern of many HSV-2-seropositive persons is the risk of transmission to sexual partners; in our experience this is the main source of angst in patients with genital herpes," Wald and colleagues note in the April 13 issue of the Journal of the American Medical Association.
Asymptomatic-infected people shed herpes virus only about half as often as do people who have herpes symptoms. But when they are shedding virus, they shed just as much as people who have frequent symptoms (unless they are having an active herpes outbreak).
Wald and colleagues also found that:
- Men with genital herpes virus infection shed infectious virus just as often as women do.
- Men can shed infectious herpes virus through normal-appearing genital skin.
- Infection with HSV-1, the herpes virus that causes cold sores, does not make a person shed HSV-2 more or less often.
- It's not clear how much genital herpes virus it takes to infect a person, but evidence suggests only a "relatively moderate shedding episode" can infect a sex partner.
- People with eight or more genital herpes outbreaks per year shed infectious virus 31% of the time. People with one to seven outbreaks a year shed infectious virus 19% of the time.
- In the Wald study, white people shed virus more often than non-white people, but there were very few non-white people in the study, so the finding is questionable.
Because it's impossible to tell whether a sex partner is actively shedding virus, prevention hinges on knowing whether or not you are infected. You can find out via a simple blood test.
For those who know, or suspect, that they or their sex partner carries the genital herpes virus, each of these steps cuts the risk of transmission in half:
- Condom use
- Daily use of the herpes drug valacyclovir
- Telling your sex partner(s) that you have genital herpes infection

Friday, July 8, 2011

Herpes Question & Answer

Q:If a person has both types of herpes and you drink after them..can you get type 2?
A:NO!
Herpes is a localised infection. It is a skin infection, is not carried in the blood, and is only infectious from the site you were originally infected in.
So if you have oral herpes type 1, only your mouth would ever be infectious. Theorectically, if you shared a drink with someone, you can give them oral herpes type 1. If you perform oral sex on someone, even without a cold sore, you can give your partner genital herpes type 1 (I caught genital herpes this way from a partner with oral type 1).
If your friend has genital herpes type 2, then ONLY their genitals will ever be infectious with hsv-2. Not their mouth, ever (although their mouth will occasionally be infectious with type 1 if they have this orally).
The only way you can get genital hsv-2 from them is if you rub genitals with them. Literally.

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Q:Can genital herpes transfer to the mouth without an outbreak?
A:Yes. Some outbreaks are not visible to the eye. Yes you can give it to each other. It’s possible but it’s less likely to be transferred to the mouth with out having a break out. Genital herpes isn’t commonly transferred to the mouth. Also if you both all ready have it you won’t be likely to get it any where else.

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Q:Symptoms of genital herpes & length of time it takes to show? Boyfriend thinks I’ve cheated & I haven’t?
A:No one will know who gave it to who.
If your boyfriend has had previous sexual partners, then he could of gotten it from them.
Remember, Herpes can be spread with or without a condom.
Get checked, incase you may or may not have it.
Plus it usually takes a man longer to show symptoms rather than a woman. And that 20 days thing is sort of rare. Your boyfriend is just creating lies to make himself feel better.
I am sorry that you have been infected with this disease, hopefully you learn how to live with it.
P.S- Symptoms for herpes are open sores on the genitals that are very painful!herpes doesn’t always show up on the 20th day, symptoms can appear 2 days after catching the virus or it can lay dominant for months until it finally appears.

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Q:Can a man with genital herpes spread it if he has not had any symptoms in 7 years? Man is 67 years old.?
A:YES. You are just in remission. there is no cure for herpes Definitely yes, herpes one of those fun viral diseases that never go away. A dormant virus is less likely to infect someone, but it is definitely a possibility.Absolutely. Herpes is a viral infection. It can remain dormant in your system for all of your life. Unfortunately, the virus itself never actually leaves your system and you will always run the risk of infecting your partner.yes you can spread herpes at any time.

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Q:Can genital herpes be spread to somebody with cold sores?
A:YES. You can get genital herpes from cold sores. It happened to a friend of mine who is in a monogamous married relationship. She got it from her husband who had a cold sore on his lip. The doctor told her that once it spreads from the lip to the genitals it becomes genital herpes. I don’t think you can get it unless there is a cold sore or canker sore at the time of oral sex.If you have genital herpes, you can spread it to your girlfriend through any kind of sex. If she has a cold sore, she can give you that. So you can swap strains and live happily ever after.

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Q:Can genital herpes cause infertility in men and women?
A:Nope. In my opinion its probably the mildest STD.
Yes, it’s incurable, but it doesn’t cause any major damage. Bacterial STD’s like chlamydia, gonorrhea, trichomonas can cause infertility if left untreated. Some of them if they get even more advanced can cause blindness and even brain damage.
Genital herpes doesn’t damage the womb or uterus and doesn’t cause cervical cancer.no herpesdoes not cause infertility. however chlamydia if untreated in women can lead to pid – pelvic inflammatory disease which can cause problems with the fallopian tubes which can lead to infertitlity in women.Nope herpes does not affect your fertility. You can still have healthy children even if you have herpes, it’s also not passed genetically.no

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Q:How long after contact with a person with herpes simplex will it take, before I get symptoms?
A:It usually takes between two and seven days after contact for the first symptoms to appear, with 4 to 5 days being the most common incubation period. Some people never catch it. Others catch it but show no symptoms.
Occasionally it appears for the first time years after you could have caught it. This means that it can turn up unexpectedly in a long-term faithful relationship. Because of this, it is important to realise that herpes simplex appearing is not proof of infidelity.

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Herpes Treatments

There is currently no cure for herpes, and no vaccine to prevent herpes.  However, many charlatans are out there promoting their “herpes cure” or great “herpes treatment” and they make bogus claims about medical research and results and take advantage of people who desperately want to believe them.  A list of some of these dishonest, unproven and/or totally bogus herpes treatments are listed at the bottom of this page.
However, there are some highly effective and reputable herpes treatments out there.  Since many people with genital herpes have few or no noticeable symptoms, while other people have several outbreaks a year, the treatment options vary depending on your particular situation.

Healthy Diet, Healthy Lifestyle, Low Stress

Many people find that eating healthy, getting regular exercise, and lowering stress greatly reduces their outbreaks.  You know how you are most likely to get sick when you are stressed out?  Same thing with herpes.  Make time for your own health and fitness and you’ll be happier and reduce your symptoms.  Time to try Yoga, Meditation or go for a hike!

Episodic Treatment

Episodic treatment involves taking an antiviral medication (such as Acyclovir, Valcyclovir, or Famvir) at the moment you feel a herpes outbreak coming on.  These medications often reduce the severity and duration of herpes outbreaks.  If you are not in a sexual relationship with someone who is not infected, and don’t have many outbreaks, Episodic treatment may be for you.  Acyclovir works well for most people, but for others, Valcyclovir works best.

Suppressive Treatment

Suppressive treatment involves taking an antiviral medication (Acyclovir, Valcyclovir or Famvir) on a daily basis, which can greatly reduce the occurance of herpes outbreaks.  Recent studies have shown that for many patients, Suppressive Treatment works so well that the patients almost never have noticeable symptoms.  Also, Asymptomatic (also called Subclinical) Shedding of the virus is sometimes reduced by up to 99%.  Therefore, as a way to reduce your risk of spreading herpes to non-infected partners, Suppressive Treatment is highly recommended, along with regular and proper use of condoms.   Read about recent research here. (Link).

Dosage Guidelines for Antiviral Drugs

Topical Treatments

In studies, topical treatments containing Lemon Balm (Melissa officianalis) have been shown to sometimes help reduce redness and help heal oral and/or genital herpes sores sooner than normal.  Swanson Vitamins sells a 1 oz size bottle of “Melissa Supreme Alcohol Free” Lemon Balm extract for under $8.  Apply a small amount of this fluid directly (topically) on your sores every day.  Don’t drink it if you are using it to heal sores.  (You can drink it, but that won’t help much).

Other Treatments

Lysine – some people think taking Lysine supplements may help. Swanson Vitamins is a good place to buy Lysine and other supplements.  Swanson Vitamins offers several different size bottles of Lysine tablets, all under $6.
- Acupuncture may also be helpful.  If you know of any research on the use of Accupuncture to treat herpes, please email us the links.  (Thanks in advance for your help - this site is maintained by unpaid volunteers!)

Bogus Herpes Treatment & Cures – Herpes Scams

Unfortunately, many companies will try to take advantage of people who are desperate to find anything that might reduce or eliminate herpes symptoms.  Since most people’s symptoms will go away within a few days without any treatment, patients may erroneously assume that it’s because of one of these bogus products.   Also, their websites put these products on lists of “good” herpes treatments which include the *real* ones like Acyclovir and Valtrex, alongside their bogus treatments.  By putting their “bad” information alongside of  ”good” information, they are being very deceptive.   Don’t be fooled by these people!

FDA issues Warnings re: STD treatment Scams

In May 2011, the FDA issued warnings to the companies making the following drugs,  who have made false and misleading claims about the benefits of their drugs. Beware of:
Medavir
Herpaflor
Viruxo
Never An Outbreak
To read an article about the FDA warnings and watch a video about these scams, click here.

Dynamiclear Scam and Herpes-Coldsores.com Scam

Dynamiclear is an herbal topical solution that claims to be “scientifically proven” to reduce the duration of herpes and cold sore outbreaks.  The folks behind Dynamiclear have a clever marketing tactic. Long ago, they created a website called Herpes-Coldsores.com that contains some good and useful information about herpes – but not all of the information is good. Unfortunately, Herpes-Coldsores.com aslo promotes Dynamiclear as if it were a medically proven herpes remedy.   The ingredients of the product may be natural and not harmful, but none of these ingredients have been scientifically proven to actual help speed the healing of herpes or cold sores.  Most people’s sores will go away without ANY treatment within a few days to a few weeks.  So many people may incorrectly attribute their healing to Dynamiclear. People are spending a lot of money on Dynamiclear and really want to believe that it works.  At best, it does no harm.  Although much of the information about other topics on Herpes-Coldsores.com is valid – they ruin their credibility by promoting Dynamiclear. If you sign up for the forums on Herpes-Coldsores.com, they will email you a PDF of recommended ways to prevent outbreaks, including diet and exercise, real herpes treatments, and Dynamiclear.com.  They show photos of doctors (probably models and not MDs) to make you think they are trustworthy.  They put Dynamiclear of a list of real herpes treatments, like Valaclovir and Acyclovir. They tell you where and how you can order Dynamiclear.  They warn about other bogus herpes treatments, as if they are not one themselves.  Their deception fools way too many people.  Unfortunately, they have a high-paying affiliate marketing program that rewards website owners for links to their sites.  Some site owners can really use the money, so they add the links.  A lot of people don’t seem to realize that Dynamiclear is a scam.  Click here for more information on why Dynamiclear is a bogus medical treatment for herpes.

Herpes Links

American Social Health Association (ASHA) – Learn About Herpes
http://www.ashastd.org/herpes/herpes_learn.cfm
Centers for Disease Control – Genital Herpes – CDC Fact Sheet
http://www.cdc.gov/std/Herpes/STDFact-Herpes.htm
Importance and Practicalities of Patient Counseling in the Prevention and Management of Genital Herpes, Article in Medscape by Terri Warren, RN (9/29/2004) – Excellent Info – Print out for your doctor!
US Food and Drug Administration (FDA):
FDA Paper – Genital Herpes: A Hidden Epidemic – Print out for your doctors!
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1370/is_2_36/ai_84434355/
Herpes.org – Nonprofit website with general info:
http://www.herpes.org/
Herpes Blood Tests Quick Reference Guide from ASHA
Original Herpes Home Page
http://www.racoon.com/herpes/
Westover Heights Clinic – Terri Warren, RN
http://www.westoverheights.com
Western Blot Test – the most accurate herpes blood test – University or Washington Virology Dept.
http://depts.washington.edu/herpes/faq.php 206-598-6066

Herpes Support and Message Boards
Local Herpes Social Groups – often offer informal support
Web MD Herpes Message Board w/Terri Warren, RN
http://boards.webmd.com/topic.asp?topic_id=90
Herpes Help – Yoshi2me.com http://www.yoshi2me.com/
Picking Up the Pieces Yahoo Group – Online Support for HSV and HPV
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/PickingUpThePieces/
Books on Herpes:
Updated Herpes Handbook from Westover Heights Clinic – Free
http://www.westoverheights.com/genital_herpes/handbook.html
OTHER
HealthCheckUSA – Order your own HerpeSelect Blood Test for HSV1&2 – private, confidential, at a local lab:https://www.healthcheckusa.com/lab_tests/Sexual_Health/Herpes_Simplex_Virus_1_and_2_IgM
International Herpes Resource Center
http://www.herpesresourcecenter.com
Study on How Well Acyclovir works to reduce virus sheddinghttp://depts.washington.edu/herpes/art_treatment.htm
Study on How Herpes is Often Spread even without Symptoms – Give to your Doctor!http://www.webmd.com/genital-herpes/news/20110412/genital-herpes-silent-spread

Living with Herpes,Share your Positive Experience.

If you have been recently diagnosed with genital herpes, you may be upset and confused and think your sex  life is over.  However, once you settle down and learn the facts, you will realize  that having genital herpes is not the end of the world, and it’s not the end of  your sex life or your social life.  You are not alone!
In the USA, approximately 60% to 80% of people carry the HSV1 virus, and 20%-25% of people over 12 carry the HSV2 virus. Percentages are higher in major metro areas.  Both HSV1 and HSV2 can cause genital herpes.  Most people with herpes have infrequent, mild, or no noticeable symptoms, and are totally unaware that they even have it.  Other people may display symptoms occasionally or regularly. HSV1 is most often associated with cold-sores around the mouth, but can also be transmitted to the genitals via oral sex and is the cause of many new cases of genital herpes.  HSV2 is most often associated with the genital region and very rarely occurs near the mouth.  Sometimes people have herpes outbreaks on their backs, buttocks or thighs, and not around the genitals.  Surprisingly, most doctors do NOT include a test for herpes even when they are testing their patients for other common STD’s.  Therefore, 90% of people who carry the virus for herpes – don’t even know it!   Unless you specifically request a herpes blood test, you may not know if you have herpes HSV1 or HSV2 or both.  Ask your doctor for the herpes blood test!
Many cities in the US and around the world have herpes social and  support groups that you can join to meet others who are in the same  situation.  Some of these groups are very active and are a great place to make friends and find people to date.   There are also several online dating services for people with herpes and other STDs. If you  are dating people who do not have herpes, you should learn how to tell someone  that you have herpes, and how to reduce your risk  of transmitting herpes to your partner(s).   The more you know about genital  herpes, the more confident you will be about the choices you make.  For more  information about herpes transmission, diagnosis and  treatment, see our Herpes Links page.
Good luck and Share your Positive Experience below!           

Herpes Social and Support Groups

Many regions and cities all over the world have herpes SOCIAL groups and/or herpes SUPPORT groups for people with genital herpes.  The social  groups often use the terms “friends” as in “Bay Area Friends” or “H2O” as in “DC H2O” or “H Club” as in “Atlanta H Club.”  The support groups are sometimes named “HELP” support groups, and are sometimes affiliated with ASHA, the American Social Health Association.

UNITED STATES

National

Picking Up The Pieces Yahoo Group – Herpes, HPV and STD Support
Facebook Groups for Herpes – Most are hidden/private and require knowing someone who is already a member in the group who can vouch for you.  It’s best to first join your local/regional herpes social group and make a few new friends in person, and see who might be in a Facebook group.  Someone might be able to invite you join one of the Facebook groups.

Alabama

Alaska

Arizona

Prescott Herpes Support Group – email hsgprescott@gmail.com

California

Central Cali H Friends – http://centralcalihfriends.org/
Sacramento – Sac Friends Yahoo Group
Northern Nevada Friends (Reno, NV and South Lake Tahoe, CA)

Colorado

Connecticut

Manchester HELP – (860) 666-0075 (Susan)  E-mail: hsv2secret@aol.com

Delaware

Florida

Jacksonville – jax-437737 Yahoo Group

Georgia

Atlanta HELP (404) 294-6364

Illinois

Indiana

Indianapolis – http://indylicious.com

Iowa

Polk County Health Department offers a free Herpes supportgroup that meets once a month. Every 4th Tuesday of the month 6-7pm at 1907 CarpenterAvenue, Des Moines, Iowa 50314, For information individuals can call Kelli at 515-286-3741

Kentucky

Louisiana

New Orleans Helper Group  504-568-2937

Maine

Let us know if you have a group there.

Maryland

Massachusetts

Michigan

Minnesota

Twin Cities HELP (800) 78-FACTS (toll-free MN only)
Twin Cities Lesbians with Herpes Yahoo Group

Missouri

Nebraska

Nevada

New Jersey

New York

North Carolina

Triad HELP Support Group – 641-4699

Ohio

Cleveland – See Ohio Friends

Oklahoma

Oregon

Portland Area Friends – All Ages
PDX Friends with H – 20′s-30′s

Pennsylvania

South Carolina

Tennessee

Nashville?  Please let us know if there is a group here.

Texas

Vermont

Virginia

Washington

Washington D.C.

Wisconsin

S-W-A-G Herpes Yahoo Group for Madison and Milwaukee, WI

INTERNATIONAL

AUSTRALIA

Living Sphere – http://www.livingsphere.com

AUSTRIA

CANADA

Forest City Friends (London, Ontario)

NETHERLANDS

RUSSIA

HERPES Dating And Community

Positive Singles –  It's probably the largest online dating service for people with herpes and other STDs. It is NOT exclusively for people with  herpes. People with HPV, HSV1, HSV2, HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis, and other STD’s are all included.